Little Bit TMI But Need Some Advice

Which is supposed to pair up with which, again? :evil:

 

I am not going to condone this, but if you are going to go through this, listen up.

1) Get on the pill, NOW. Take it every day at the same time and do not miss a day.

2) Get some condoms.

Also you should know that there is always a risk that you could end up with child or catch an std.

I think that if this not a joke and that your are genuinely asking this sort of question, then I don't think you should go through with it.

 

Puberty?

Don't worry, in five years or so you'll probably hit the point where you realise it's not actually too bad, and you can still achieve a lot.

And you probably don't want to know either.

Definitely not. Marry in haste, repent at leisure is not simply a trite little saying - it is an important guideline to life.

Preferably talk to your doctor and discuss the various different options available as well. It may be that some aren't suitable, but get on one of them.

Yes, do this.

Depending on the age of the poster, I may or may not agree here. Better to approach it with an open mind and proper precautions rather than try and repress hormones - in general you'll fail anyway. However if the poster isn't of legal age (and particularly if her boyfriend is) then definitely don't go through with it.

 

If you're old enough to spend the night with a guy in a hotel, your certainly old enough to tell your mom that you are making you're own life choices. Think it might be time to stop being a little girl and just be open and honest with who you are. If you're mom is any kind of parent she'll sit down and talk you through how to be safe and enjoy your youth. If she isn't then go find a responsible adult and ask them, then just inform your mom of your decision.

One piece of advice though, don't use sex as a de-stress tool. Use it as a way of building intimacy. love deeply but always wisely.

The Bear.

 

Personally I'd say that if you are still young enough, or in a position, to be told what time to come in by your Mum then you are too young to be bandying around terms like "FH".
Sounds like a pre-rationalisation used to give yourself an excuse to do the naughty with the guy.
"It's OK to go to a hotel with him because he's my FH".
I'd ask how old you are AND how old your FH is.
If you were my 15 year old daughter and you were planning on going to a hotel with your 25 year old FH then you and me would be having SERIOUS words about going at all let alone what time you were to get in.

 

I prescribe a cold shower and some pressups.

 

Could you ooze pretension any more in this post? Yes, you could. By also copying it and sending it to me in PM because you're so proud of yourself. Full of "hilarious fail"? Tripping over "all that fail"? You do realize THAT is terrible English, right? Come on, what's next? Troll face? Try harder next time, at least make it worth reading.

 

Trust me, if you are old enough and you're planning to have sex then you aren't living well enough. Sex isn't a bad thing, unplanned and uneducated sex is.

The

 

Stay on topic guys.

Do you have any useful advice to offer the Princess, Hanzo?

 

i'm going to agree here because i have nothing of worth to add.

If this is where we are posting advise, i went home with a nurse the other day and she had a bigger adams apple than me, i'm more than a little worried, am i going to hell?

 

more details... this sounds interesting...

more details on the circumstances.
you weren't in thailand were you?

 

Good post by Polar Bear. If you're old enough to be organizing and paying for a stay at a hotel you're certainly old enough to be honest with your mom about it. Plus if she sees you have the maturity to be organizing this for yourself and pay for it yourself she's less likely to object.

I'd rather you told her to talk to her doctor and see if it is suitable for her and talk about the options and possible side effects. That's her endocrine system you are talking about altering.

 

Looking back on what I posted in this thread last night, there is a lesson that must be learned: don't drink and MAP. My apologies for my smarminess, both to Devil and MAP in general.

Back on topic.

I've read a lot of references in this thread to OP's age, but I'm not really convinced age matters in this case. Putting up with our parents' rules is a pretty small price to pay for otherwise free room and board. There will be plenty of time for the stuff your mom doesn't approve of when you move out; there's no need to be in such a hurry.

 

Worse, newcastle!

 

ha, from the sounds of things i should be very thankful for having the folks i have (and i am)