Would you defend yourself if...

Discussion in 'Self Defence' started by Taiyaki_MMM, Feb 28, 2007.

  1. Leiurus

    Leiurus New Member

    Taiyaki_MMM

    High school bullies can make your life hell, no doubt, and as far as your concerns about repercussions go, bad things DO happen, no doubt.
    But try to be honest with yourself. If your concerned about repercussions, do they really happen, or are they just talked about? What are you really scared of?

    Here is a reality, you might have heard before; bullys are cowards, bullying arises from fear. "A bully is a coward turned inside out".
    Bullying is a way of feeling in control. A bully controls your fears, makes them feel they are in control of theirs. He controls your fears by making you scared. He is feading off you.
    Now; Fear is mostly about the unknown - your scared of the unknown (what might happen) he knows exactly what your going to do if he takes the **** out of you - you’ll freeze, cos your scared, so he knows he will get away with it, your predictable.

    If someone is being arsy with you, be wittier than them. If someone so much as lays a hand on you, dont accept it. Drill a wrist grab so you know which way to turn him (nothing fancy, just one hand grab and twist) soon as he touches you aggressively, or in a domineering way, grab and twist, poke your fingers in his throat - hard (right above the breast bone), and snarl at him to leave you in peace. (inject all the hatred and ferocity and madness into that snarl) If you do that, and it escalates into a fight, let it, but it probably wont, cos now he is scared of you. He's scared of what other tricks you might know, scared he might getting shown up, scared he might getting hurt, but most of all, scared of your response, scared of your unpredictability. Draw the line there pall, dont let anyone get physical with you, not for a second. The will learn fast to pick on someone else.

    There are always risks, but you cant let others push your spirit down. Its only risk of the unknown. Suffering emotional and spiritual torment is like a cancer on the soul, its deadly! It will change you, kill who you are and turn you into the product of this other guy, the bully, and your own imaginary fears. If you cant make this guy look ridiculous with wit and words right now, then your gonna have to get rid of your fears, so that your spirit isn’t scarred, cos you will live with those scars for the rest of your life. So stand up to them, always.

    p.s. Always grab the top of the hand, not the wrist itself. ;-)

    Good luck.
    "Courage is resistance to fear, mastery of fear - not absence of fear".
    Mark Twain
     

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