Well, San Francisco would offer you a huge, supportive community as a transgirl. I doubt there is anywhere else like it. If you get into the community there, I’m sure people could help with connections like housing and jobs and stuff. Of course Covid is screwing everything up and jobs may be hard to come by for a long time, and it is just sooooo expensive. That’s why we finally moved away about a year ago, we decided it was time for a new start, where it’s not so expensive. We are in the Sacramento area now, but still trying to get stable employment. My wife was born and raised in San Francisco, Ive been living in The Bay Area since 1994. Finally had to leave. Are any martial arts clubs connected to the college in Grand Forks? Maybe even P.E. Classes that you could take? Might find someone on campus who is part of the faculty, or a student who simply wants training partners or is willing to teach or has a campus club going? Those might expand the opportunities beyond the stable three schools. If you start making inquiries in the greater community, you might find someone who just practices in his/her back yard and isn’t connected to the main commercial schools, who might be willing to teach. Those people are out there. I’m one of them, in my community. Was going to get a group started, but then Covid happened.