OMG bed rest after 18 weeks, I couldn't manage that!! I've wrote my birth plan saying that unless ABSOLUTELY necessary I do not want to stay in hospital!! I don't want to even be in the hospital unless I have to. (not scared) my sis had quite a crappy experience, they kept her in for no reason, and she even woke up in the middle of the night to find her baby gone!!! One of the midwives took him without telling her.