Page 3 -Smut Or A British Institution?

Discussion in 'Off Topic Area' started by Mangosteen, Jan 20, 2015.

  1. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    To be honest I thought martial arts people would understand where I'm coming from.
    Much like the STEM industries, martial arts can be a field that is not overly welcoming to women, can put women off before they've even started, makes them quit sooner than average, doesn't seek to accomodate them very well, can be a bit "boys locker room", seems outwardly very "male", etc etc.
    And much like STEM is more than likely missing out of some great exponents in the field because it's not welcoming to as many people as possible.
     
  2. Hannibal

    Hannibal Cry HAVOC and let slip the Dogs of War!!! Supporter

    I undertsnad teh point you make mate, but I also think this is a guy who is a bit of a sci-fi/comic geek being called out on something that he probably does as a matter of course (i.e. wear a horrible shirt)....I suspetc he was trying to look relatively "cool" and it backfired
     
  3. Mangosteen

    Mangosteen Hold strong not

    culturally the wonder women symbol is very different because of her backstory. she is one of the few female superheroes in a multitude of universes filled with male superheroes. much like a female scientist.

    that combined with hollywood's reluctance to make a wonder woman film, him wearing a wonder woman shirt would have been a very positive message to young girls.
     
  4. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    Oh yeah...that's pretty much what happened.
    He wanted to look edgy and cool but made a hash of it. Unlucky for him he chose the worst possible forum and time to do it and "internetz gonna internet". :)
    I think this guy is just simply a bit clueless rather than overtly sexist.
    The main problem I have with the situation is that none of his supervisors stepped in (or felt they could or even should step in) and make him take it off (seeing as he had a perfectly servicable polo shirt underneath).
     
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  5. Mangosteen

    Mangosteen Hold strong not

    this argument is bullcrap though, its the weird stereotype pushed by mainstream media about academics, gamers and geeks that only resonates with old people. being into sci fi and comics is the coolest thing now.
     
  6. Hannibal

    Hannibal Cry HAVOC and let slip the Dogs of War!!! Supporter

    Go to your average comic-con or shop in town and there and hundreds if not THOUSANDS of people like this. We might not like them being representative of us, but they are a highly visible subset of geek culture
     
  7. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    But I would question if women are put off because some gyms are laddish, or because they're violent and we have weird attitudes towards women and violence? Add in the the women you will see at a gym will generally be in good shape and, judging from mine at least, tend to not wear much. If you're body conscious and self conscious (as it seems a lot of women are when they start) I'm not sure I would put blokey behaviour at the top of the reasons why.
     
  8. Hannibal

    Hannibal Cry HAVOC and let slip the Dogs of War!!! Supporter

    Most women are put off by my classes because there is a high chance they will get punched in the face and hit with a stick..........most men are put off for the same reasons :D
     
  9. Mangosteen

    Mangosteen Hold strong not

    amazing thing is that this subset usually arent the folks in academia. ive said it a few times, folks in academia are quite well rounded otherwise they dont make it far in academia because of the broad skillset needed and the 100's of students who have those skillsets. he wouldnt have been put in front of the press unless he was able to talk to them, but he chose a crappy shirt.

    excusing him because he might be a stereotype of geek is a strange response because those stereotypes aren't as true as we're made to believe.

    also comic-con has changed hannibal, fantasy and cosplay is cool since cinema has picked up on it.
     
  10. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    I just threw out a handful of reasons. I'm sure there are all sorts of reasons (some probably bogus..false bricks in my analogy). Didn't really attempt to rank them. But I think we can agree that women aren't as represented in martial arts as perhaps they should or could be?

    See what we're doing though? Talking about it! It's good innit? Dialogue and all that. It's not something we just think women need to put up. We can explore the issue. And that's all that really happened with Matt Taylor (it just happened on a large scale).
     
  11. Hannibal

    Hannibal Cry HAVOC and let slip the Dogs of War!!! Supporter

    This year I intend to dress as a Ragnar Lothbrock
     
  12. Mangosteen

    Mangosteen Hold strong not

    go as floki or go home!

    off topic - i went to the viking museum in york and the staff were telling me they met an icelandic guy called "floki flokison flokison" ad infinitum (floki son of floki son of floki etc)
     
  13. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    Not as such. All the reasons you threw out were ones that suggested it was an internal problem with martial arts and the people doing them that made them unattractive to women and I'm not sure that's true. Although I do also have to admit that I haven't trained in that many places and the place I'm at now has a sizeable number of women training there so maybe it simply an issue I don't see. Gym privilege maybe :p

    I'm reluctant to say what happened to Taylor was people "talked" about it. Granted, there's no such thing as talking once you get to that scale but still.
     
  14. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    Agreed. Some people pointed out his shirt wasn't ideal in the circumstances and could be seen as unwelcoming to women and some other people told them to shut and stop spoiling his special day. :)
     
  15. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    Some people called him a misogynist pig who was destroying Science by preventing the woman with the cure for cancer from following her dream and some people pointed out that has nothing to do with his shirt :p

    Can we keep doing this? I'm having fun :hat:
     
  16. Mangosteen

    Mangosteen Hold strong not

    extremes in every spectrum.
    glad we all stand in the middle although slightly away from each other.
     
  17. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    This is very likely the most civil discussion I've ever had on the internet about potential sexism. It feels weird.
     
  18. Smitfire

    Smitfire Cactus Schlong

    That's because no women are involved and we're rational men.

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    :Anth::ban::evil:
     
  19. Wildlings

    Wildlings Baguette Jouster

    There are reasons women don't do martial arts that are very unreasonable (excuse the pun :p), and they boil down to:
    1) "Martial arts are a boys' thing, I'm a girl so I don't like them"
    2) "But they're all boys in that gym! I'm not going there."
    If a woman thinks like that it isn't a community's fault, more like said woman having problems socialising with males.

    However, in some (most, in my experience) gyms you find definitely sexist attitudes i.e. being given the silent treatment, boys refusing to spar with a girl, not being allowed to train like the boys etc.
    So yeah, in many cases it's true.
     
  20. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    Ah, fair enough. Guess I got lucky then.

    On a related note, when we were talking about why women might be put off training it was only guys there. So as a lady person, do you think it could be off putting to women if when they, say, come have a tour around the place the women they see are all in leggings and sports bras, in good shape, and they see ones who are clearly very good? Like, would the positive thing that there are women training there be overshadowed by feeling like you'd be judged next to them and a fear you couldn't measure up straight away I guess is what I'm getting at?

    Because I know for my part it was a big reason I put off joining the mma classes so long was I was intimidated by the kind of guy I saw there and felt like I wasn't going to belong with them. I would presume women would face the same pressure.
     

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