Do you agree with this guy's advice in this video about texting a girl?

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  1. thegoodguy

    thegoodguy Valued Member

    Or in case you don't agree, what are your reasons? Or what else would you add to what he says?
     
  2. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    Clickbait YouTube video is clickbait.

    What about the video do you want to talk about?
     
  3. thegoodguy

    thegoodguy Valued Member

    I'm focusing just on what the guy talks about
     
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  4. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    Do you want to list the mistakes? And what you think of it?

    What is a mistake anyway? What is your definition of success, if just being yourself scares away people who don't want you, then lying about yourself, ends up with you being in a relationship with someone who doesn't like the real you, and that isn't a real win. Unless your goal was a series of failed relationships where the common weak link was your personality.......

    Anyway enough about me!


    #winning
     
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  5. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    The Art Of Seduction Through Texting: Big Mistakes Men Should Avoid

    So in short, pay attention, don't be a douche, get a VPN?

    Haha, this is terrible, if your trying to make money off this "thegoodguy", you should really up your game!

    Also "thegoodguy" seems more and more like the sort of name someone with a degree in marketing would use.

    Rener is that you?
     
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  6. thegoodguy

    thegoodguy Valued Member

    Ok. When I say "mistakes when texting a girl" I mean texting her things that can cause her to dislike you ( and maybe block you later )

    "then lying about yourself". No. The guy does not encourage that, mate. I'll list the mistakes ( when texting a girl in whatsapp ) he talks about:

    - Texting a woman you don't know ( And neither does she know you )
    - Not remembering her name or not spelling her name correctly
    - Talking about your ex
    - Being too serious
    - Sending inappropiate photos of you ( we should know what I mean )
    - Not using VPN in your phone
    - Showing off
    - Sending photos where you are shirtless ( unless you're on the beach that would make sense )
    - Being a catfish ( He means for example putting a very old photo of you ( let's say a photo from 10 years ago when you looked better ) in facebook or whatsapp ( specially your profile photo ) instead of an current photo
    - Using periods in the sentences
    - Giving s short response to a message
    - Asking too many questions to her ( The guy encourages saving those for a conversation face to face in case she doesn't live far from you )
    - Not having a firm and definite plan before proposing her a date somewhere
    - Texting when being drunk
     
  7. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    So what about the video for men inexperienced with women made you think of MAP?
     
  8. thegoodguy

    thegoodguy Valued Member

    Well, I infer that the man who made the video made it exactly for inexperienced guys ( inexperienced at dealing or interacting with women )
     
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  9. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    To wrongly quote Mr Merton, and that made you think of MAP?

     
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  10. Ben Gash CLF

    Ben Gash CLF Valued Member

    So the takeaway from this video is have basic social skills?
     
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  11. Dead_pool

    Dead_pool the merc with the mouth MAP 2017 Moi Award

    And use a VPN.....

    Because how else will the "blogger/stater of the obvious"make money from you!
     
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  12. Mushroom

    Mushroom De-powered to come back better than before.

    I talk to my female friends the exact same way as my male friends. I dont discriminate.
    So anyone on my whatsapp has ever recieved a disturbing, low hanging fruit, gallow humour meme...that goes to everyone.
    Obviously I only choose certain jokes to certain people. Know your audience.
     
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  13. Ben Gash CLF

    Ben Gash CLF Valued Member

    now deeply concerned about what that says about me.....
     
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  14. Mushroom

    Mushroom De-powered to come back better than before.

    ...that we're going to Hell and we know it?
     
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    Mushroom De-powered to come back better than before.

     
  16. Rand86

    Rand86 likes to butt heads

    I would just like to say, as usual, that people who can text while drunk have my deepest respect and admiration. I mean, I hate doing it sober; and when I'm drunk it's all I can do to keep track of my phone!
     
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  17. pgsmith

    pgsmith Valued dismemberer

    Sorry, but that's incorrect. The mistake IS texting a girl you don't know. Why in the world would anyone believe that they could possibly get to know someone with texts? If you're interested in meeting women, go out and meet them! Get a hobby (or five), go places, see things, discuss them with those around you. This is how a person develops a personality and social skills. Texting with strangers just isn't going to help you much.

    And you kids get off my lawn! :)
     
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