Disagree to Agree HELP!!!!!

Discussion in 'Off Topic Area' started by KSN_Princess, Sep 28, 2011.

  1. KSN_Princess

    KSN_Princess Kuk Sool Won Princess

    Hi ya'll,

    I was thinking real deep about something that my FH told me to do if i didn't what to get into an arguement. Which is this : to disagree is to agree

    But i feel like thats somewhat lying. My FH is super huge on the lying thing. He feels totally fine doing this but im starting to think that this is kinda lying & im not really liking the idea that he does this on a daily bases somewhat. Then if its what i think it is. Then there would be a trust issue which i don't want that to start forming. & have these issues before we get married!!!

    What do u ya'll think???



    GSHAMBROOKE Thats Tarm Sarm

    I agree to disagree.
  3. Fu_Bag

    Fu_Bag Valued Member

    Agreeing to disagree is like saying "we're not going to agree on this so let's not fight about it." I don't see it as lying, though. Lying would be pretending to agree on something while secretly hating your FH for his opinions on the matter, or vice versa.

    GSHAMBROOKE Thats Tarm Sarm

    I always agree to disagree on things when i cant be bothered arguing about the subject.
  5. These are two different things, aren't they? :)

  6. Blade96

    Blade96 shotokan karateka

    I agree to disagree with my conservative or pro life friends. (yes i have them)
  7. Obewan

    Obewan "Hillbilly Jedi"

    Well thank you Blade I didn't know you cared. :love: ;)
  8. Blade96

    Blade96 shotokan karateka


    GSHAMBROOKE Thats Tarm Sarm

    If you say so:p
  10. holyheadjch

    holyheadjch Valued Member

    You have to do the maths. Is winning the argument worth the potential damage that the argument will cause to the relationship? If the answer is yes, then it is either a really important argument or a really crappy relationship.
  11. slipthejab

    slipthejab Hark, a vagrant! Supporter

    God... can someone please tattoo this inside of my eyelids?!:eek:
  12. Freeform

    Freeform Fully operational War-Pig Supporter

    What's an FH?
  13. Fu_Bag

    Fu_Bag Valued Member

    In my mind, it means "Future" Husband. :cool:
  14. Kid Moe

    Kid Moe Peace that don't belong

    I like to argue so I rarely "agree to disagree". :rolleyes: But in my mind arguing should be a constructive way to prove some point you are trying to make... It shouldn't be a "fight"... At the end, if you cannot change someones mind by giving strong arguments, you should learn to accept it... Otherwise that could be an issue in a future relationship... ;)
  15. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    That doesn't sound like "agree to disagree" to me?
  16. Kid Moe

    Kid Moe Peace that don't belong

    I agree... :D
  17. Southpaw535

    Southpaw535 Well-Known Member Moderator Supporter

    I'm so confused!

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