Hi - I want to express my appreciation that you've stayed in this thread and added much of value. I thank you for your willingness to stay on, despite some very unpleasant and snarky comments from various folks including the OP - and I've always been interested in your comments. This thread is similar to ones I've been in too many times over the last 40 years and I'm probably not going to jump in but I am grateful for your presence and good sense. So 2nd wave feminist waves and cheers for you from across the pond! w/respect, A I